Turning 50 is more than a milestone—it’s a declaration of strength, wisdom, and self-love. Oh, to Be a Black Woman is not just a hat; it’s a celebration of everything that makes us powerful. As I step into this new chapter, I am prioritizing my health, embracing my authenticity, and building a legacy that inspires generations. This is the season of intentional living, self-celebration, and standing unapologetically in my truth. Join me in honoring the beauty and resilience of Black womanhood.

It February brings reflections on love, alignment, and the intentional spaces we create. As a creative, love must be expansive, not restrictive—supportive, not envious. It cannot thrive in chaos or demand explanations for midnight inspiration. In March, I choose discernment, ensuring that those I welcome into my life complement rather than complicate my journey. Because my life is art, and the love I accept must be worthy of the masterpiece I am creating.all begins with an idea.

When Chief Allomanhin placed the wand in my hands, I knew this was no ordinary gift. In his culture, only kings and chiefs carry this sacred symbol of power, wisdom, and leadership. It is never given lightly—yet he gave it to me. In that moment, he confirmed what I had not yet fully claimed for myself: I am walking in something greater. This was more than recognition; it was a calling. When a chief acknowledges you as worthy of something only rulers hold, you don’t question it—you rise to meet it.